
Shelby’s Award-Winning Book
Learning to Dance in the Rain
Surviving grief, Internet Dating and Romance Scams
Third Edition

Learning to Dance in the Rain is the deeply emotional and empowering personal story of the author, Shelby Wagner’s unexpected loss of her husband of fifty years and her struggle to survive her grief and rebuild her life.
Deciding she doesn’t want to live the rest of her life alone, she embarks on an adventure to find love again through internet dating websites, only to be deceived by a smooth-talking scammer who steals her money and breaks her heart again.
As she grapples with another loss, she confronts her pain as she learns powerful lessons about love, vulnerability, and the risks of the digital world, which is far distant from the one of fifty years ago.
Along the way, she finds strength in unexpected friendships, begins to heal, and ultimately discovers a new lease on life and the courage to dance in the rain.
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SCAMS: A Resource Guide

SCAMS: A Resource Guide was created by Shelby Wagner to educate about the many scams that currently are being used to defraud people of their money on the phone, the internet, and in person.
Wagner is passionate about getting the word out so people will be prepared and wants you to be able to recognize whenever they are approached by someone pretending to be their friend and offering information that looks like a “good deal” but is not!
Shelby reveals several stories of her own vulnerability and how she lost a lot of money. Sure, you probably think it will never happen to you, and you may be right. However, someone you know is being targeted right now and needs your knowledge, strength, and support to avoid being manipulated into giving away their money to a scammer.
Scams are fraud and fraud is illegal. It destroys its victims and once the money has been given, it is almost impossible to recover.
Your friends and family are at risk! Buy copies of this book and give one to each family member and friend you know. The only way to end these crimes is to become knowledgeable, talk about it, and STOP GIVING THEM YOUR MONEY!